Heelde's Blog
From Silence to Strength: Reclaiming Your Voice and Space
There was a client who once softly said: “I’ve learned not to speak. For years, no one really listened to me, and at some point, I just stopped trying.” Those words struck me. How often do people shrink themselves because they feel their voi...
There are moments when someone genuinely asks, "How are you really doing?" or "You can talk to me, you know." Well-intended, maybe even loving, yet instead of feeling invited to share, something else happens. You freeze. You shut down. All the words that may have been swirling in your mind just a mo...
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There is a quiet pain that many of us know but rarely speak about. It’s the pain of not being heard—the disappointment that settles in your heart when you realize that someone isn’t truly listening. They don’t take the time to pause, to be present, to ask deeper questions. They don’t make space f...
